Temple Days are Great!!!

I get to volunteer at the Payson Temple in the Baptistry on Fridays.

It is really exciting to see all the Youth come in.
I also enjoy the ladies that I volunteer with, new friends is always a good thing.

This JUST happened to me...

I went to pick Millie up from her Dentist appointment. I was stopped at the stop sign by my house, ready to cross onto my street.
A man. I don't know. Stopped by my car and rolled down his window. He pointed to Andrew and said, "He should be in a car seat." "Ok" was my only response. True, NONE of your business, but true non the less. THEN he says, "let's use common sense" as he drives away.
Really!!!  My only question is Why. Why be so rude? Why be so intrusive? Why?
Saying that as you drive away is cowardly.
The end.

We'll Ascend Together-By Linda Burton

Great talk!
https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2015/04/well-ascend-together?lang=eng


We’ll Ascend Together

As covenant-keeping women and men, we need to lift each other and help each other become the people the Lord would have us become.
Next to the inspiring talks, music, and prayers that always touch our hearts during general conference, I have been told by many sisters that what they love most is watching the First Presidency and Quorum of the Twelve as they exit this podium with their eternal companions. And don’t we all enjoy hearing the Brethren tenderly express their love for them?
Speaking about his wife, Donna, President Boyd K. Packer said, “Because of the office I hold, I have a solemn obligation to tell the truth: She’s perfect.”
"She is the sunshine of my life,” said President Dieter F. Uchtdorf of his wife, Harriet.
President Henry B. Eyring, referring to his wife, Kathleen, said, “She [is] a person who has always made me want to be the very best that I can be.”

And President Thomas S. Monson, speaking of his beloved Frances, said, “She was the love of my life, my trusted confidant, and my closest friend. To say that I miss her does not begin to convey the depth of my feelings.”

I too would like to express my love for my beloved companion, Craig. He is a precious gift to me! Referring to my husband, a cherished and sacred phrase in my patriarchal blessing promises that my life and the lives of my children will “be well in his keeping.” It is clear to me that Craig is the fulfillment of that promise. Borrowing from the words of Mark Twain, I say that “life without [Craig] would not be life.” I love him, heart and soul!

Divine Roles and Responsibilities

Today I wish to honor husbands, fathers, brothers, sons, and uncles who know who they are and who are doing their best to fulfill their God-given roles as described in the family proclamation, including righteously presiding and providing for and protecting their families. Please know that I am painfully aware that the topics of fatherhood, motherhood, and marriage can be troubling for many. I know that some Church members feel that their homes will never reach what they perceive to be the ideal. Many are hurting because of neglect, abuse, addictions, and incorrect traditions and culture. I do not condone the actions of men or women who have willfully or even ignorantly caused pain, anguish, and despair in their homes. But today I am speaking of something else.

I am convinced that a husband is never more attractive to his wife than when he is serving in his God-given roles as a worthy priesthood holder—most important in the home. I love and believe these words from President Packer to worthy husbands and fathers: “You have the power of the priesthood directly from the Lord to protect your home. There will be times when all that stands as a shield between your family and the adversary’s mischief will be that power.”

Spiritual Leaders and Teachers in the Home

Earlier this year I attended the funeral of an extraordinary ordinary man—my husband’s uncle Don. One of Uncle Don’s sons shared an experience he had as a small child, shortly after his parents had purchased their first home. Because there were five small children to feed and clothe, there was not enough money to fence the yard. Taking seriously one of his divine roles as the protector of his family, Uncle Don drove a few small wooden stakes into the ground, took some string, and tied the string from stake to stake all around the yard. He then called his children to him. He showed them the stakes and string and explained to them that if they would stay on the inside of that makeshift fence, they would be safe.

One day the visiting teachers watched in disbelief as they approached the house and saw five little children standing obediently at the edge of the string, looking longingly at a ball that had bounced beyond their boundaries and out into the street. One little child ran to get their daddy, who, in response, ran and retrieved the ball.

Later in the funeral, the oldest son tearfully expressed that all he had ever hoped in this life was to be like his beloved father

President Ezra Taft Benson said: “Oh, husbands and fathers in Israel, you can do so much for the salvation and exaltation of your families! …“Remember your sacred calling as a father in Israel—your most important calling in time and eternity—a calling from which you will never be released." “You must help create a home where the Spirit of the Lord can abide.”

How applicable those prophetic words are today.

It must be difficult, at best, for covenant men to live in a world that not only demeans their divine roles and responsibilities but also sends false messages about what it means to be a “real man.” One false message is “It’s all about me.” On the other end of the scale is the degrading and mocking message that husbands and fathers are no longer needed. I plead with you not to listen to Satan’s lies! He has forfeited that sacred privilege of ever becoming a husband or father. Because he is jealous of those who have the sacred roles he will never fill, he is intent on making “all men … miserable like unto himself”!

Lifting and Helping in Our Complementary Roles

Brothers and sisters, we need each other! As covenant-keeping women and men, we need to lift each other and help each other become the people the Lord would have us become. And we need to work together to lift the rising generation and help them reach their divine potential as heirs of eternal life. We could do as Elder Robert D. Hales and his wife, Mary, have done and follow the proverb “Thee lift me and I’ll lift thee, and we’ll ascend together.”

We know from the scriptures that “it is not good that … man should be alone.” That is why our Heavenly Father made “an help meet for him.” The phrase help meet means “a helper suited to, worthy of, or corresponding to him.” For example, our two hands are similar to each other but not exactly the same. In fact, they are exact opposites, but they complement each other and are suited to each other. Working together, they are stronger.

In a chapter about families, the Church handbook contains this statement: “The nature of male and female spirits is such that they complete each other.” Please note that it does not say “compete with each other” but “complete each other”! We are here to help, lift, and rejoice with each other as we try to become our very best selves. Sister Barbara B. Smith wisely taught, “There is so much more of happiness to be had when we can rejoice in another’s successes and not just in our own.” When we seek to “complete” rather than “compete,” it is so much easier to cheer each other on!

 

When I was a young mother of several small children, at the end of days filled with diapering, dish washing, and disciplining, no one sang more emphatically the Primary song “I’m so glad when daddy comes home.” I’m sad to admit, however, I was not always cheerful when Craig seemed to bounce through the door after a hard day of work. He always greeted each of us with a hug and kiss and turned many difficult and sometimes disastrous days into delightful daddy times. I wish I had been a little less preoccupied with the endless list of to-dos still to be done and had more wisely focused, like he did, on things that mattered most. I would have stopped more often and enjoyed sacred family time and would have thanked him more often for blessing our lives!

Let Us Oft Speak Kind Words to Each Other

Not long ago, a faithful sister in the Church shared with me a deep concern she had been praying about for some time. Her concern was for some of the sisters in her ward. She told me how it hurt her heart to observe that they sometimes spoke disrespectfully to their husbands and about their husbands, even in front of their children. She then told me how as a young woman she had earnestly desired and prayed to find and marry a worthy priesthood holder and build a happy home with him. She had grown up in a home where her mother had “ruled the roost” and her father had cowered to her mother’s demands in order to keep peace at home. She felt that there was a better way. She had not seen it modeled in the home she grew up in, but as she prayed fervently for guidance, the Lord blessed her to know how to create a home with her husband where the Spirit would be warmly welcomed. I have been in that home and can testify it is a holy place!

 

    Sisters and brothers, how often do we intentionally “speak kind words to each other”?

We might test ourselves by asking a few questions. With a little adaptation, these questions can apply to most of us, whether we are married or single, whatever our home situation might be.

1.     When was the last time I sincerely praised my companion, either alone or in the presence of our children?    
2.    When was the last time I thanked, expressed love for, or earnestly pleaded in faith for him or her in prayer?    
3.    When was the last time I stopped myself from saying something I knew could be hurtful?    
4. When was the last time I apologized and humbly asked for forgiveness—without adding the words “but if only you had” or “but if only you hadn’t”?    
5. When was the last time I chose to be happy rather than demanding to be “right”?    

Now, if any of these questions lead you to squirm or feel a tinge of guilt, remember that Elder David A. Bednar has taught that “guilt is to our spirit what pain is to our body—a warning of danger and a protection from additional damage.”

I invite each of us to heed Elder Jeffrey R. Holland’s heartfelt plea: “Brothers and sisters, in this long eternal quest to be more like our Savior, may we try to be ‘perfect’ men and women in at least this one way now—by offending not in word, or more positively put, by speaking with a new tongue, the tongue of angels.”

As I have prepared for this opportunity today, the Spirit has taught me, and I have committed to speak words of kindness more often to my cherished companion and about him, to lift the men in my family and express gratitude for the ways they fulfill their divine and complementary roles. And I have committed to follow the proverb “Thee lift me and I’ll lift thee, and we’ll ascend together.”

Will you join me in seeking the help of the Holy Ghost to teach us how we can better lift each other in our complementary roles as covenant sons and daughters of our loving heavenly parents?

I know that through the enabling power of the Atonement of Jesus Christ and our faith in Him, we can do it. I pray we will put our trust in Him to help us help each other live happily and eternally as we ascend together, in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

Please help me out...

This is going to be hard for me to write, it may not ever get posted. I just read a draft of something I never posted...I am an interesting creature. So, here it goes:

I am having a hard time trying to settle my emotions with the new ruling from the Supreme Court on gay marriage. For lots of reasons. Maybe someone out there that understands my thoughts will be able to help me figure this out, so here it goes:

I  feel like I am a loving and forgiving person. It is hard for me to hear people say that "Love won." I disagree, but first, I am LDS (Mormon) I am so grateful for my testimony that I have, I am grateful for my membership in the church. I go to church, I strive to keep the commandments, I pray with my children, I read scriptures with them. I want them to have their own testimonies and I want to be with them forever. I believe that is possible, I believe that is the ultimate goal we are all striving for. All of us, together. I also realize that there are those that don't believe in God. But I do.  
When I think about the blessings of Eternity, I want that for everyone. Even people that I don't know. I don't want people to settle for anything less. I get that they have their agency. Trust me I do, I still have hope for them. I still want them to know what I know. I don't want to be accused of being judgmental and not loving, because that is not what my problem is, my problem is that I love people too much. I want them to fight the good fight and not sacrifice the eternities for the here and now. The same things that I want for my children I want for others. That to me is love, I love people and want what is best for them, well, what I feel is best. Maybe that is my biggest problem...

I am not being judgmental, I know that we all have sins, we all have things we need to work on and do better. I don't think I am perfect (I hear that one too) but seriously, look at me, I am fat. That is in no way perfect. It goes against the teaching of the Church. I don't want to be fat, but I am. I am tired of hearing, "exercise, eat right, drink water" and you will lose weight. That hasn't happened for me. I have been working on this for a long time, and I mean a L O N G time. I've tried a lot of things, I have gone to therapy, I have gone to Drs. I am not looking for pity here, just understanding that I get that we all have trials and things we need to work on. I am also not looking for a change in my religion to make me feel more comfortable with my trial. I want to improve and  live within the guidelines the church has given. Can you imagine what that would look like if I wanted that?...I want everyone to be fat so I feel better. I want all the gyms across the country to close, I want people to get fined for exercising, I want healthy food to be abolished. Let's get serious.

I can compromise and let gay people marry, I disagree with it and I want better for them, but I understand agency. However, I don't want to be called intolerant because I disagree. I don't want to be sued for not baking them a cake or whatever. I want that same tolerance to go both ways, but it doesn't for some people. I don't see this ending until my religious liberties are gone, and that is what I am really afraid of . I'm afraid it won't end until I am not allowed to worship how I would like to. Is anyone else afraid of not being about to go to church, not being able to go to the Temple, not being able to pray, not being able to teach their children about Jesus Christ and God? Because that is where we are headed.  I am not afraid of people marrying who they want, again I disagree and I want better for them, but it doesn't really affect me...yet.

I wonder if those that are excited about the new ruling understand what all of this really means, what it means that one branch of our government was powerful enough to make this change all on it's own.

Just Ask.

From my reading this morning..
Alma 62:48-51

 48 And the people of Nephi began to prosper again in the land, and began to multiply and to wax exceedingly strong again in the land. And they began to grow exceedingly rich.

 49 But notwithstanding their riches, or their strength, or their prosperity, they were not lifted up in the pride of their eyes; neither were they slow to remember the Lord their God; but they did humble themselves exceedingly before him.

 50 Yea, they did remember how great things the Lord had done for them, that he had delivered them from death, and from bonds, and from prisons, and from all manner of afflictions, and he had delivered them out of the hands of their enemies.

 51 And they did pray unto the Lord their God continually, insomuch that the Lord did bless them, according to his word, so that they did wax strong and prosper in the land.

 

And also, 3 Nephi 13:32-34

32 For your heavenly Father knoweth that ye have need of all these things.

 33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things shall be added unto you.

 34 Take therefore no thought for the morrow, for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient is the day unto the evil thereof.

 

And 3 Nephi 14:7-11

 7 Ask, and it shall be given unto you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you.

 8 For every one that asketh, receiveth; and he that seeketh, findeth; and to him that knocketh, it shall be opened.

 9 Or what man is there of you, who, if his son ask bread, will give him a stone?

 10 Or if he ask a fish, will he give him a serpent?

 11 If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father who is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?

 

I had this experience the other day. (other month) I was having a really hard day. I was sad, and worried. I didn't have any answers for my problems, I felt discouraged. I decided to go on a walk, and talk to my Heavenly Father. I told Him about my troubles. When I got home. I felt better. I felt like my problems had been lifted off of me. Nothing had changed, nothing was different. I just didn't feel the pressure from my problems, I had a gift, it was a gift of relief. I felt happy and confident and hopeful.

I know Heavenly Father is there for us. He wants to give us good gifts.

 

We just need to ask.

 

 

So I was reading this on my bed and looked out my window and saw this in the window sill.

 

Keep an eternal perspective...a lesson learned while playing a game...

I really enjoy playing games, and one of my favorites is, "Ticket to Ride." 
We decided to play a round, usually it is really fun and we are all laughing and having a great time. This particular instance however, it went from fun to serious in a matter of minutes.
Let me explain...
I will change the names to protect the innocent, after all, this is my lesson.
If you don't know how to play this game, the object of the game is to place pieces on the board  trying to make trains to complete a route that you have chosen. I had my specific route, I knew my destination and I knew what I needed to do to get there. I formed a plan and proceeded to carryout that plan. Little did I know that my plan was in direct conflict with someone else's plan. Every time I placed my trains to reach my destination, my fellow players were getting more and more frustrated. (I will call him-Chris) was getting blocked at every turn, and getting um...:) So, in the middle of the game, things were getting a little heated, no one was laughing anymore, everyone was focused on the game, there was no visiting-we were serious. I ended the game with my last piece. The End.  We were counting up the points and Chris realized he didn't do as bad as he thought he had done and was actually in 2nd place. We put the game away and all went our separate ways. I went into my room thinking about what had just happened...where did things go wrong? What could I have done differently? What could I do now to heal the hurt feelings?  Just then, Chris walks in and kisses me and tells me he loves me and that he is sorry he was being such a stinker during the game.

It was just a game, why did we get so caught up in the game and forget about each other?  What other things in life take the Eternal perspective out of our view? What other things distract us and cause us to lose our focus even for a moment? Why do we allow ourselves to get distracted over silly things?

I want to do better about staying focused and focusing on the things that matter.

Andrew

Cornbelly's with the Greens

Christopher and Noah in the war zone. 

Lindsey and Camille rock climbing...

Homemade bread

I made bread! It is YUMMY! It doesn't last very long at my house. My children are "big eaters."

Thanksgiving

We went to Cedar City and spent Thanksgiving with Jared & Melanie and family!

This is a picture we took on our hike. The shirts were the kids idea. Chris was asked by a stranger if she could take a picture of his shirt. hahahaha!

 My silly munchkins decided to have a pie eating contest. They are crazy! I think this was taken on the 2nd piece of pie that they had. I believe Sam won both times.

 Christopher has to make Oreo pie-EVERY year. He says, "It isn't Thanksgiving unless we have Oreo pie."

                                                                  Emily being...a deer?